THE
BABY
YOU
WANT
Your Body Isn’t Failing You, Infertility Culture Is.
Optimize, eliminate, do more, spend more, work harder. What if the whole model is woefully out of date?
Book Release • March 23, 2027
In The Baby You Want: Your Body Isn’t Failing You, Infertility Culture Is, Nicole Lange challenges Problematic Infertility Culture and lays out a more effective new standard of fertility care, where patient education is essential, mental health isn't expendable, and barely scraping by is no longer an acceptable outcome. Whether you're in the thick of trying to conceive, you love someone who is, or you work with people who are — this book was written for you.
The 25/75 Approach.
Learn the 25/75 ratio of True-Holism. Infertility-specific problem-solving gets 25 percent of your attention: key tests, treatments, and troubleshooting. While whole-you integration gets the larger 75 percent: felt-safety, education, healthy boundaries, rest, joy, relationships, mental health, and even finding meaning and growth in life's hardest places.
It's not either-or. Stop choosing between TTC and a healthy and whole you. The 25/75 approach is evidence-based, best practice, and your best chance at the baby you want.
The Baby You Want is for the reader who deeply wants a baby and refuses to accept a culture where four in ten people facing infertility screen positive for PTSD, and people are told to put their lives back together “later.”
Read It Early. For Free.
The Baby You Want will be in bookstores in March 2027, but you can start reading sooner:
✧ Join the early reader list below and get the first three chapters free, straight to your inbox as soon as they’re finalized in February
✧ Be one of the first 50 early readers and get the entire book for free
Either way, you'll get special invitations to any in-person and virtual launch events. If you'd like a signed copy, or want the book at your local bookstore, be sure to join the list and those details will come soon.
Early reader copies are free. If you’re willing, I’d love to ask for an honest review; there's no expectation that it be positive. Everyone who signs up will get the first three book chapters, and a limited number of full copies will go out in February. By signing up you agree to receive emails from me. No spam. No "optimizing." Unsubscribe anytime, no feelings hurt.
Nicole Lange is a licensed acupuncturist, Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner, and certified research and science nerd. She has spent more than two decades at the intersection of fertility care, trauma-informed healing, and cutting-edge reproductive science.
Nicole has been on-site for nearly a thousand embryo transfers, taught patients and IVF clinic staff alike, and built her Minneapolis practice, Life Healing Life, around a simple truth: the whole is always greater than the parts. The Baby You Want is her first book.
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